Love Blog Story 2

 Hello guys, 

It’s been officially a whole dang year since the first love blog story. And I feel like I have to update this train of thought. Somethings are true and others need a bit more context or input if you will. 

Love definitely comes in all forms, all shapes and sizes it’s definitely true. Love is definitely about connecting with the right people. Having the same vibe in a sense, creating highs and with those highs, also experiencing lows. Experiencing the full spectrum of a friendship/ relationship. Experiencing pain is important to see how it will be handled by both parties to really test that “love” and observing if keeping it alive will be possible. 

Love can be one-sided and this is where pain could come in. Feeling things others might not feel. Or pushing something that isn’t there emotionally. You don’t want to put more than what you receive, that is just a mentally tiring. One sided feelings could be fixed of course but the other party has to be aware and or it has to be presented to them in a way. Waiting to see if anything changes is not the solution. Action always is. Whether it’s about communicating certain feelings or just cutting someone off from their life to stop certain emotional pains or sufferings. 

When 2 people are in the same mental train of thought that could be a bad thing, in my opinion. Depending on the person. For example if both people argue and start getting violent and yet they both blame each other equally but neither is willing to forgive, this is one something or someone needs to be the one to change or give in for the sake of the relationship. Me, personally I’m dramatic as hell, and emotional too. But im also aware of what’s happening and I forgive easily mainly because I tend to overreact.

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There are certain people that like to be the “Alpha” in the relationship. These people are the dominant ones, the person who controls their partner emotionally. They have the power in the relationship and in no way are submissive to anything. In a sense, it’s their way or the highway. This personality is common and could be handled by people who aren’t both typically alphas. One is always more sensitive. One demands, the other accepts. It could be healthy but it could also be damaging if the role doesn’t change from time to time, every once in a while. 

Respect is one of the most important aspects in a relationship. Always being aware for your partner, letting them know what’s going to happen, especially if it deals with any sort of pain from their history wether it’s family, exes, friends etc. respect will always be the key to any relationship. Am I respecting my partner? Am I hurting them in any way? Being conscious of our actions. Love learns. Love can heal.

This has been kept a draft for awhile that’s why the paragraphs are separated. Should have been published a long time ago. I think love evolves and at the same time the same intense love from the get go is can be constant forever with the right person or if it’s mutual. Mistakes are likely to happen. Words can be said. But as long as certain lines aren’t crossed everything is repairable. 

Thank you for reading. ❤️

COVID-19 Blog

Hey blog, dang, long time no chat. 

I've been busy moving, learning, waiting, and just enjoying 2020. No but let's be real this COVID-19 issue has been longer then expected to be honest. It started increasing severely in march. And we were all like all right it'll die down we're fine right?? WRONG April comes around and all you see was worldwide panic and chaos. Nice.

It's been basically half a year and now it's July and looks like things are kicking back up again. Yay the second wave of corona. Congratulations guys! we have managed to ignore social distancing and have worsened the situation. Great! Shout out to all the Karens in the world who complain about their face mask because it's a "health issue" and now we hear some talk of a new swine flu with potential pandemic fears

Side note: I forgot how much I enjoyed writing sometimes. It makes me feel free. Like I can insult people and nobody will ever find me. I'm kidding I feel like I'm super easy to find lol. And no I won't insult anyone, just super biased opinions and no "real" research (not in this blog at least). Just me and my thoughts. Anyway...

I feel like in the first few months, everything became sort of balanced. The rich had lost business and money in the stock market, and the poor got the helpful boost they needed to survive aka the stimulus checks and unemployment boost. The real truth is the rich need the poor to profit and the poor need the.... na basically the poor likes rich people for their fancy things wether it's their cars, businesses, houses, etc. but the rich do need consumers like the poor to profit, even basic services like house needs, construction, mechanics, plumbing, groceries etc. do the poor really need the rich? or do the poor live long enough and smart enough to become rich? This pandemic has me thinking I guess. After a few months of thought and carefully analyzing how the economy is moving, it looks like the world is returning how it was but with still increasing infected ones and deaths still on the rise. Interesting

I mean it seems like this year has been on "pause" long enough. Don't get me wrong the pandemic seems like a real issue to not take lightly of course but there seems to be a sense of betrayal. Like if someone lied to you and pretended to cover it up with something else, or perhaps tried to distract you with something else from the real issue. That's what this RONA feels like. As if it was here for a reason, whether a good one or bad. We have officially fallen out of human patterns, our daily routines. We or someone we know have been changed forever. We feel different. Things aren't the same. Education is online. Human contact is limited. Limitations and restrictions. It just seems all just negative. Where is the positivity here? 5G networks is that it? Tech advancement for the purpose to capitalize and increase monopolization? All right, sure I guess. How do we benefit from the rona?

I don't know guys, the biggest thing I can take away from these past few month is change. And I think change is good. Leaving our comfort zone. Leaving jobs, getting new ones. leaving places and finding new ones. Sure it might come at a cost but it seems like that cost is growth and moving forward. Never backwards. 

Thanks for reading. I appreciate it 

with love, Hosguy 💖